• Berlin
  • Germany

Transformational Relationships & Sexuality Weekend Retreat

Led by Taber Shadburne, M.A., Creator of "R/evolutionary R/elating,"certified Master Trainer in Radical Honesty, & Founder of Church of Soul



Transformational teachings, experential exercises, ecstatic dance, free form play & intimacy.


Welcome to a 3-day immersion in transformational relationships and sexuality with lectures taught and practices applied to topics like The Playful Art of R/evolutionary R/elating, Creating & Sustaining R/evolutionary Relationships & Transformational Eros & Soulful Sex. 


19:00 - 21:30H [Arrive by 18:45H, door closes at 19:00H]

Come join us for an Exciting Experiential Evening.

Come and learn by playing in the Realm of R/evolutionary R/elating. Explore your Edges & Discover your Desires.

Practice the art of Creating Connection.  And not just any connection, but deep, soulful connection, which is healing, nourishing, and transformational.

Uncover your authentic offering and give it. Learn to ask for what you truly want and receive it. Engage in ecstatic spiritual work and play in the context of conscious, compassionate community.


10:00 - 18:00H [Arrive by 9:45H, door closes at 10:00H]


The real point of relationship is not what folks usually think it is. The ultimate purpose of an intimate relationship is not romance, or pleasure, or baby-making. The ultimate purpose of relationship is transformation - healing, evolution, and growth. Shedding shame, freeing ourselves from fear. Learning to really Love.

And this is the great work that intimate relationships are uniquely and powerfully qualified to help us accomplish.  Especially when super-charged with the multiple megawatt life force of sexuality, the energy of Eros.

So, yes, relationships can feel hard and difficult. That's no mistake. The mistake is thinking that they are supposed to make us happy, and that they should be easy. Sometimes they bring us pleasure; sometimes they bring us pain. But when we use them to learn to really love, then they bring us joy.

Welcome to Saturday and the R/evolutionary R/elating practice. Join us and learn more about HOW to use relationships and sexuality as a path of transformation, to practice the art of creating connection and not just any connection, but deep, soulful connection. To yourself, to others, to All That Is.

10:00 - 18:00H [Arrive by 9:45H, door closes at 10:00H]


Sexuality, Eros, the Life Force has the power to SUPERCHARGE everything it touches. It can just deepen our stuckness, loneliness, or shame OR it can become a POWER-FULL FORCE for TRANSFORMATION.

Learn how to engage this soulful, sexy power, the magic of Eros, and use it as ROCKET FUEL for your journey of healing, and growth, and realization. Learn to harness not only the incredible Love & Light that Eros can evoke, but also its edgier, darker aspects. Use it for evolutionary Shadow Work.

Embrace the full spectrum of your sexuality - Your playfulness and power; beauty and tenderness; lustiness and aggression; sweet, gentle love and hot, sweaty desire. All are welcome. All are vital. All are Holy. Shed your shame. Open your mind, your heart, and your hips. Do the Dance of transformational intimacy. Luscious love and conscious kink.

Of course, you will be supported in taking care of yourself IMPECCABLY. Not doing ANYTHING that doesn't feel DELICIOUS to you, asking for EXACTLY what you want, co-creating comfort, kindness and support. You will not be expected to engage in any particular activity, and will be supported in having only that which NOURISHES YOUR SOUL. 

Join us for this Soulful, Sexy Journey of Discovery! 



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Taber Shadburne is a cutting-edge counselor and teacher of transformation who has helped thousands of folks transform their lives and their relationships for over 25 years. 

He has led life-changing workshops in over 50 cities, in 15 countries, on four continents. He studied Zen for 10 years, lived and practiced at the Dharma Rain Zen Center, and has worked deeply with various spiritual teachers.  He has a B.A. in Music and Comparative Religion and an M.A. in Counseling Psychology.  He has worked closely with Dr. Brad Blanton for 20 years, and is the only person ever to be certified by Brad as a Master Trainer of Radical Honesty.  Taber co-authored a book, The Heart of Healing: Inspired Ideas, Wisdom and Comfort from Today's Leading Voices, with notables such as Deepak Chopra. Over the last few decades, Taber  has created a body of work he calls R/evolutionary R/elating, and founded the Church of Soul, in Oakland, California.   Read more about him here, or check out what others have to say here.  



Friday, July 6, 2018: 7 PM - 9:30 PM
Saturday, July 7 & Sunday, July 8, 2018: 10 AM - 6 PM  

Friday Night Only: €15 (plus transaction fee)
Regular Price - Full Weekend: €340 (plus transaction fee)
Early Bird Price - Full Weekend (Registered by May 15): €280 (plus transaction fee) 

For lower transaction fee options, contact the organizer Jura.
Scholarships and payment plans available as needed.  To apply, fill out this form.

Friday evening may be attended by anyone, even those who haven't committed to the whole weekend.  Come and bring your friends!  

Berlin, Germany.  
Specific location details will be sent before the event. 

Questions: If you have any questions or want to talk to someone about the workshop please reach out to Jura at workshops@juraglo.com or manal@churchofsoul.org