• Lolia Ecovillage and Event Center (map)
  • 13-6554 Kalapana - Kapoho Rd
  • Hawaii

R/evolutionary R/elating & Soulful Sexuality

Led by Taber Shadburne, M.A., Creator of "R/evolutionary R/elating,"certified Master Trainer in Radical Honesty, & Founder of Church of Soul

NEWS FLASH!! : Just got invited to play a major role in the Hawaii Tantra Festival, where I am excited to be delivering a keynote and teaching during the festival… AND… I’ll be teaching a powerful pre-festival workshop - all the info about that is below… AND… you’ll get a discount on the festival if you:

Sign up for the HTF with my discount promo code: HTFTaber at http://hawaiitantrafestival.com

(and I’ll get a kickback if you use my code, which will be a big help) :-)

Sign up for the R/evolutionary R/elating & Soulful Sexuality workshop above or below….


Transformational teachings, experiential exercises, free form play.

Come learn about conscious communication, transformational intimacy and soulful sex.


6:00 PM - 9:00 PM

Join us for an Exciting Experiential Evening!

Come and learn by playing in the Realm of R/evolutionary R/elating.  Explore your Edges & Discover your Desires.

Practice the art of Creating Connection.  And not just any connection, but the kind of deep, soulful connection that is healing, nourishing, and transformational.

Learn to ask for what you truly want and receive it.  Uncover your authentic offering and give it. Engage in ecstatic spiritual work and play, in the context of conscious, compassionate community.

10:00 AM - 5:00 PM


Sexuality, Eros, the Life Force has the power to SUPERCHARGE everything it touches. It can just deepen our stuckness, loneliness, or shame… OR it can become a POWER-FULL FORCE for TRANSFORMATION.

Learn how to engage this soulful, sexy power, the magic of Eros, and use it as ROCKET FUEL for the fire of transformation, to propel you on your journey of healing, growth, and awakening.  Learn to harness not only the incredible Love & Light that Eros can evoke, but also its edgier, darker aspects.  Use it for evolutionary Shadow Work.

Embrace the full spectrum of your sexuality - Your playfulness and power; beauty and tenderness; lustiness and aggression; sweet, gentle love, and hot, sweaty desire. All are welcome. All are vital. All are Holy. Shed your shame. Open your mind, your heart, and your hips. Do the Dance of transformational intimacy. Luscious love and conscious kink.

Of course, you will be supported in taking care of yourself IMPECCABLY. Not doing ANYTHING that doesn't feel DELICIOUS to you, asking for EXACTLY what you want, co-creating comfort, kindness and support. You will not be expected to engage in any particular activity, and will be supported in having only that which NOURISHES YOUR BODY & SOUL. 

Join us for this Soulful, Sexy Journey of Discovery! 



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Taber Shadburne, M.A., is a cutting-edge counselor and teacher of transformation who has helped thousands of folks transform their lives and their relationships for over 30 years.

He has led life-changing workshops in about 60 cities, in 20 countries, on five continents. He studied Zen for 10 years, lived and practiced at the Dharma Rain Zen Center, and has worked deeply with various spiritual teachers. He has a B.A. in Music and Comparative Religion and an M.A. in Counseling Psychology.

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Taber is the creator of the work known as R/evolutionary R/elating, which he teaches all over the world. He has also worked closely with Dr. Brad Blanton for 20 years, and is the only person ever to be certified by Brad as a Master Trainer of Radical Honesty.

Taber co-authored a book, "The Heart of Healing: Inspired Ideas, Wisdom and Comfort from Today's Leading Voices," with notables such as Deepak Chopra, and he founded the Church of Soul, in Oakland, California, and the White Hawk Sanctuary, a progressive spiritual retreat center, in the hills outside San Diego. He is also a passionate professional musician and recording artist. Read more about him here, or check out what others have to say here.  


Thursday, January 31: 6 PM - 9 PM
Friday, February 1: 10 AM - 6 PM  

Thursday Night Only: $20 ($15 for Tantra Festival Participants)
Thursday & Friday: $175 ($150 for Tantra Festival Participants)

+ Room & Board, which you can arrange through the retreat center: https://www.lolia.org

Scholarships and payment plans available as needed.  To apply, fill out this form.

Thursday evening may be attended by anyone, even those who haven't committed to Friday. Come and bring your friends!  

Lolia Ecovillage and Event Center
Pāhoa, Hawaii