Revolutionary Relating Weekend Retreat
Led by Taber Shadburne, M.A., Creator of "R/evolutionary R/elating,"certified Master Trainer in Radical Honesty, & Founder of Church of Soul
Join us in Berlin for a two and half day introductory deep dive into the art of R/evolutionary R/elating and Radical Intimacy. Learn how to get over the past, cultivate honesty, authenticity and connection in the moment, reclaim your ability to ask for what you want, and build a life of compelling purpose.
Let’s face it, we all yearn to give and receive love. We want richer relationships, deeper friendships, more closeness and community in our lives. We may even notice, in some quiet moments… that we’re dogged by a nagging sense of separateness.
And yet, when we look closely, we find that we, ourselves, are sabotaging the connection we want — with our own defensive conditioning, our old patterns of fear, dependency, and blame. We find that we are hiding from each other, fighting with each other.
How are we to drop this rusty armor so that we may, at last, see each other clearly… hold each other closely? I want to share with you a way I’ve learned to do just that.
We want to help you, as we have many others all over the world, to:
- Heal close relationships, with full-body forgiveness
- Let go of shame, fear, attachment to approval
- Open-heartedly share yourself and support others to do so
- Be completely and compassionately honest
- Go beyond blame and use conflict creatively
- Ask for everything you want, expanding your ability to give & receive
- Create deeper love, connection & intimacy.
Specifically, this intensive workshop will focus on the following:
Beyond Hiding & Fighting
- How and why we hide from each other, thus blocking the connection we crave
- Why and how we get lost in our minds, thus losing touch with reality and each other
- The main cause of all unproductive conflict… and how to solve it!
The Power of Passion & Presence
- The real source of suffering – internally, and in relationships
- True meditation & how to make all of life, especially all the pitfalls potential of intimacy into a powerful meditation
- How people usually (mis)use conversation to resist life, create more suffering, and stay asleep, unconscious
- Recovering from our addiction to Dialogs of Distraction
- The 3 N’s of Conscious Conversation
- The 3 Languages of R/evolutionary R/elating, and when and how to use them.
- Letting go of our painful attempts to control (ourselves & others)
- Moving beyond all blame (of ourselves & others), beyond "good" and "evil"
- Achieving actual acceptance. and full-body forgiveness (of ourselves & others).
- Learning to truly Love (ourselves & others)
- Learning the Art of Asking for what you want and offering freely… the healing and nourishing practice of giving & receiving
Taber will teach, coach, and facilitate transformational conversation. You will do exercises & practice R/evolutionary R/elating with each other in real time.
Taber Shadburne is a cutting-edge counselor and teacher of transformation who has helped thousands of folks transform their lives and their relationships for over 25 years.
He has led life-changing workshops in over 50 cities, in 15 countries, on four continents. He studied Zen for 10 years, lived and practiced at the Dharma Rain Zen Center, and has worked deeply with various spiritual teachers. He has a B.A. in Music and Comparative Religion and an M.A. in Counseling Psychology. He has worked closely with Dr. Brad Blanton for 20 years, and is the only person ever to be certified by Brad as a Master Trainer of Radical Honesty. Taber co-authored a book, The Heart of Healing: Inspired Ideas, Wisdom and Comfort from Today's Leading Voices, with notables such as Deepak Chopra. Over the last few decades, Taber has created a body of work he calls R/evolutionary R/elating, and founded the Church of Soul, in Oakland, California. Read more about him here, or check out what others have to say here.
Friday, May 18, 2018: 7 PM - 10 PM
Saturday, May 19 & Sunday, May 20, 2018: 10 AM - 6 PM
Regular Price: €380 (plus transaction fee)
Early Bird Price (Registered by April 5): €310 (plus transaction fee)
Friday evening is FREE and may be attended by anyone, even those who haven't committed to the whole weekend. Come and bring your friends!
Specific location details will be sent before the event.